Wednesday, 12 November 2008

who are u

hey people have you ever paused to ask this question,have you ever doubted the person you are ?well the good news is that i have .yes times withouty number and it is never a pleasant period because i am that kind of person that exhibits a lot of courage,confidence and self esteem. however certain things happen to one in life and one begings to wonder 'COULD THIS REALLY BE ME'

any way i woul share my antidote to this depressing feeling with you .
if you are a christian like me am sure you might have come accros this part of the bible which says that we are created in the image of GOD.Can you beat that .that was all it took for my joy to be restored for my fears and insecurities to be handled ,for my fear of the future to be doused . for everything negative tpo givwe way for light.

So what am i saying ,whenever you feeling blue ,pink,red ,white black or green just remeber that you are created of GOD AND LIKE GOD AND BELIVE ME U ARE THE BEST OF YOU .Do not let any man or anything take ur joy.


shallom.

its good to be back i promise to be more regular as i share myheart with you out there who so ver you are .GOD BLESS U

Sunday, 20 July 2008

LOVE-THE SACRIFICIAL SIDE OF IT

HI ,ITS BEEN A WHILE . WELL I HAD BEEN VERY BUSY ,REMEMBER I TOLD U AM A JOURNALIST AND WITH A JOB LIKE THAT SOMETIMES YOU DON'T EVEN REMEMBER SOME THINGS. MEANING YOU KIND OF PRIORITIZE.

WELL I WOULD BE SHARING SOMETHING WITH YOU ABOUT LOVE. RECENTLY I OPEN MY HEART AGAIN TO GIVE A RELATIONSHIP A CHANCE. I AM SEEING THIS WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN . IYKE IS ,WELL I WONT SAY EVERY WOMANS DREAM COS WAT IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER MAY NOT BE FOR THE GOOSE. BUT TO ME HE IS WONDERFUL ,CARING AND LOVING.

RECENTLY HE STARTED CORRECTING ME ON JUST ABOUT A WHOLE LOT OF THINGS ,AND MY DEARS SUCH TIMES WERE TIMES FOR FIGHTS . FOR ME I FELT HE WAS BEEN TOO HARD ,WHILE HE THOUGHT I WAS NOT TEACHABLE.THIS MY DEAR WORRIED ME FOR A WHILE . AND I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO GOD ABOUT IT AND EXPRESSING FEAR THAT THIS COULD TEAR US APART.

HOWEVER I GOT AN ANSWER THAT IS A SOLUTION AND THAT I AM WORKING WITH AND WOULD WANT TO SHARE WITH YOU. FOR THE GUYS AROUND. WHEN YOU WANT TO CORRECT YOUR PARTNER ITS BEST TO USE THE SANDWICH METHOD . THIS METHOD INVOLVES COMPLIMENTS ,CORRECTION AND COMPLEMENTS. I BET YOU NO WOMAN WOULD FEEL HURT IF YOU DO THAT.

AND FOR YOU SISTERS OF MINE. IF YOU ARE CORRECTED PLEASE DON'T SEE IT AS A KIND OF PERSECUTION OR SOME SORT OF YOUR MAN TRYING TO LORD HIMSELF OVER YOU[THATS WHAT I WAS FEELING]IT TAKES ONLY A MAN WHO LOVES YOU TO CORRECT YOU.NO MATTER HOW IT HURTS ,IT MAY TAKE TIME TO GET USE TO BUT JUST SMILE AND SAY THANK YOU.

HOWEVER ONE SHOULD BE ABLE TO KNOW WHEN YOU HAVE A HITLER ...LOL AS A PARTNER AND FLEEE.AND LIKE MY SWEETHEART WOULD ALWAYS SAY WHEN HE CORRECTS ME ,I WOULD TELL YOU THAT CORRECTION IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD .IT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON ,WE ARE ALL STUDENTS FOR LIFE ,HENCE WE SHOULDN'T ALLOW PRIDE DEPRIVE US AN OPPORTUNITY TO BE A BETTER PERSON.

SO WHAT ARE THE LESSON,1]LEARN TO BE TEACHERABLE, MEN ,REMEMBER THE SANDWICH AND BE WILLING TO COMPROMISE ,NOT JUST IN A SPOUSAL RELATIONSHIP BUT IN ALL KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS. SHALLOM.



DEVOTIONAL PASSAGE;PSALM 103........BLESS GOD THIS WEEK AND YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED WHAT THE LORD WILL DO . EXPECTING FEEDBACKS

Tuesday, 1 April 2008

BE URSELF

HI GOODMORNING AND GOODMORNING.WELL I WOULD BE SHAREING MY THOUGHTS ON A SONG BY AN ARTIST I HAVE COME TO LOVE. HER MUSIC IS DEEP AND SOULFUL SHE IS ASA.WELL I REALLY NEVER LISTEN TO THE FIRST TRACK ON HER ALBUM CALLED JAILER UNTIL THIS MORNING AND I WAS LIKE WERE HAVE I BEEN .THIS IS SO ECAUSE THE SONG WAS TALKING OF AN ISSUE I REALLY DISLIKE IN PEOPLE AND HAVE SEEN QUITE A LOT OF IT BEING EXIBITED. I AM TALKING OF HYPOCRISY. I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE CANNOT BE THEMSELFS ,I DO NOT LIKE EYE SERVICE IN ANY WAY.I SEE NO REASON WHY YOU SHOULD WANT TO BE SOMEONE ELSE THAT I NOT YOU .IT SHOWS HOW SHALLOW YOU ARE AS A PERSON AND HOW LOW YOURSELF ESTEEM IS. MY MUM USE TO SAY THAT ONE OF THE MOST TERRIBLE DISEASES ON EARTH IS THE INABILITY TO BE YOURSELF. NOW I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT IF YOU HAVE A CHARACTER TRAIT THAT YOU ARE NOT HAPPY WITH OR THAT THOSE NOT GO DOWN WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH PEOPLE AROUND YOU AND YOU WANT TO CHANGE IT. I AM TALKING OF TAKING ON ANOTHER PERSONS ROLE AND THEJN BEING A JUDGE OVER OTHERS. WELL I WOULD JUST SAY LEARN TO LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOURSELF AND THEN LET OTHERS BE THEMSELVES TOO .LOVE YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU MWA SHALLOM

BE URSELF

Saturday, 29 March 2008

on the part of destiny

HI SORRY I HAVENT POSTED ANYBLOG IN A WHILE .AM DONE WITH MOURNING ,ITS TIME TO MOVE ON .WELL DIS MORNING I JUST STARTED A PROCESS THAT WILL CONTRIBUTE POSTIVELY TO MY DESTINY.YOU KNOW THE BIBLE TALKS ABOUT SEEKING KNOWLEDGE .BECAUSE WE PERISH FOR LA CK OF IT. PERISHING COULD MEAN DIFFERENT THINGS ,IT COULD MEAN NOT MAKING HEAVEN,IT COULD MEAN NOT FULFILLING YOUR DESTINY IN LIFE ,IT COULD MEAN NOT PERFORMING U[P TO YOUIR OPTIMUM WHICH EVER WAY DONOT BE CAUGHT IN THAT STATE COS YOU WOULD HAVE ONLY YOURSELF TO BLAME HAVE A BLESSED WEEKEND .LOVE YOU AND GODBLESS SHALLOM

Thursday, 27 March 2008

THINK OF THESE THINGS

WELL YOU MAY BE WONDERING ABOUT THE TOPIC.FIRST OF ALL I WANT TO APPOLOGISE FOR NOT SENDING TODAYS DEVOTION.HOWEVER I HAVE SOME THING FOR YOU TO REALLY SIT DOWN AND THINK OF

WHAT IS LIFE

WHY AM I HERE

WHAT IS LIFE WITHOUT GOD

WHAT IS THE LIFE AFTER LIKE

WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP DO YOU HAVE WITH GOD

WHAT HAVE I DONE FOR GOD

DO I APPRECIATE THE LITTLE BLESSINGS OF LIFE

PLS SEND ME YOUR HONEST ANSWER. BUT I ENCOURAGE YOU TO TRULY SEARCH YOUR SELF BEFORE YOU ANSWER AND MAKE AMMENDS WHERE NECESSARY. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN WE SEE,THAN THE MATERIAL THINGS AND EVERYTHING.


I JUST LOST A COLLEAGUE THAT WAS WITH ME IN THE OFFICE YERSTERDAY. HE WAS TRYING TO SAVE HIS TODDLER FROM HIS BURNING HOUSE . ELDER GAVE HIS LIFE FOR HIS CHILD . HIS DEATH HAS MADE ME ASK THE QUESTIONS I ASKED AND I HOPE WE ALL FIND ANSWERS FOR THEM .GODBLESS YOU AND KEEP LEAVING FOR GOD AND SHOULD INCASE YOU HAVE NO RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM ITS TIME TO MEND FENCES WITH GOD. SHALLOM

Tuesday, 25 March 2008

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HELLO GOOD MORNING AND GOD BLESS YOU .HOPE YOU HAD A GOODNIGHT?WELL THIS MORNING I WOULD BE SHARING MY DEVOTION WITH YOU.OUR TEXT IS HEBREWS 4 VS 13 AND IT SAYS NEITHER IS THERE ANY CREATURE THAT IS NOT MANIFEST IN HIS SIGHT ;BUT ALL THINGS ARE NAKED AND OPENED UNTO THE EYES OF HIM WITH WHOM WE HAVE TO DO .

ACCORDING TO T.JAKES THE WRITER OF MY DEVOTION BOOK THE BIBLE THIS MORNING HAS CALLED US TO A STATE OF OPENHEARTED COMMUNICATION WITH GOD ,YES WE FEEL VULNERABLE WHEN OUR HEARTS ARE COMPLETELY OPEN BEFORE GOD ,YET EVERYONE OF US DESPERATELY NEED SOMEONE WE CAN OPEN UP TO EVEN THOUGH SOME OF US WONT ADMIT IT.
SINCE WE ALREADY FEEL EXPOSED WHEN WE REALIZE THAT THERE IS NO ONE THOUGHT WE HAVE ENTERTAINED THAT GOD IS NOT AWARE OF THEN THERE IS NO NEED FOR A SANCTIMONIOUS MISREPRESENTATION OF WHO WE ARE .WE NO LONGER NEED TO LIVE UNDER A CAMOUFLAGE WE ARE NAKED BEFORE THE FATHER.WE YOU GO TO A DOCTOR FOR AN OPERATION YOU DERE NOT HIDE ANYTHING FROM HIM BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT HE NEEDS TO SEE WHAT EVER HE WANTS IF HE IS TO SAVE YOUR LIFE ,SO ALSO SHOULD IT BE WITH GOD.

NOW THE PURITY THAT ALLOWS GOD'S PRESENCE INTO YOU LIFE IS YOU ABILITY O OPEN UP SINCERELY TO HIM EVEN THOUGH YOU KNOW HE KNOWS ALL THINGS.GOD STILL REQUIRES THAT YOU MAKE A CHOICE OF HAVING HIM IN YOUR HEART.HENCE YOU SHOULD ALLOW HIM TO PERPETUALLY FLUSH AWAY THE CORROSION THAT IS THREATENING TO BLOCK THE FLOW OF HIS MERCY AND GRACE TO US ,OPEN UP TO GOD.THERE IS NO ONE OUT THERE WHO DOES NOT NEED GOD .I HAVE NEVER SEEN FISH SURVIVE WITHOUT WATER SO ALSO IS MAN WITHOUT GOD.

I WOULD SHARE A TESTIMONY WITH YOU .I HAD MY TRYING TIMES WHEN I DID THINGS THAT WERE NOT PLEASING TO GOD . I HIDE ,I DENIED AND I WAS LEAVING FALSELY. LET ME TELL YOU WHAT IT DID TO ME .I BECAME DEPRESSED,ANGRY AND WAS ALWAYS HAVING FRICTION WITH EVERY AND ANYBODY. I WAS SUSPECTING EVERYBODY AND WAS TO ASHAMED FOR ANYONE TO KNOW MY SECRETS . HOWEVER THE MOMENT I TOLD GOD THE TRUTH AND ASKED FOR HIS GRACE, HE INSTANTLY BEGAN A WORK IN ME . HE IS STILL AT IT AND I AM STILL LEARNING TO TRUST GOD AND FELLOW MEN .ITS NOT BEEN EASY BUT HE HAS BEEN FAITHFUL.

I ENCOURAGE YOU THIS MORNING TO PLEASE BE SINCERE WITH GOD .YOU HAVE NOTHINIG TO LOOSE ,BUT SO MUCH TO GAIN. GOD IS CONTINUALLY SENDING A DELUGE OF HIS GRACE INTO THE HEART OF HIS CHILDREN ,BUT HE CANT CLEANS OR PURIFY WHAT WE HIDE IN THE SECRET CORNERS OF OUR HEARTS AND MINDS.

IF THIS MESSAGE HAS TORCHED YOU AND YOU WANT TO OPEN UP TO GOD PLEASE SAY THIS PRAYER WITH ME .LORD JESUS I THANK YOU FOR THE OPPORTUNITY YOU HJAVE GIVEN ME THIS MORNING TO KNOW YOU .COME IN TO MY HEART AND CLEANSE ME AND GIVE ME THE GRACE TO BE OPEN TO YOU . HELP ME TO LOVE YOU AND BE ACCOUNTABLE TO YOU .NOW I COMMIT YOU TO HE HAND OF HIS GRACE THE LORD WILL KEEP YOU ,HE WILL PRESERVE YOU AND HIS COUNTENANCE WILL BE UPON YOU IN JESUS NAME AMEN.PLS SEND ME A COMMENT IF THE WORDS IN THIS BLOG HAVE TORCHED YOU ,WAITING TO HEAR FROM YOU . SHALLOM AND GOD BLESS YOU.

WOMAN

I WOULD BE SHARING AN ARTICLE ON WOMEN WITH YOU TONOGHT AND FOR ALL YOU WOMEN WHO WOULD READ IT I HOPE IT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON AND FOR THE MEN I HOPE YOU HELP HER BECOME WHO SHE SHOULD BE AND IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A 'HER' LOOK OUT FOR THIS TRAITS IN HER.IT IS CALLED FOCUS TO ACHIEVE

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A great threat to purpose is the fear of failure. Many because of this fear have resorted to a life of procrastination; being afraid of taking necessary steps needed to fulfill purpose in life. Essentially, to focus on our fears is not only a distraction from your pursuit of purpose but an invitation for the manifestation of the anticipated fear. The case of Job reveals the truth in the saying, “You get what you look for”.

Job said what I fear has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me” (Job 3:25). Job’s calamity is partly informed by his focus. Rather than emphasize the purpose of God for his life, he preoccupied himself with the fear of loss, destruction and death.
For the majority of women today the fear of one thing or the other is the bane of their success and fulfillment.

i. Fear of failing in marriage
ii. Fear of failing in proper parenting
iii. Fear of failing in business,
iv. Fear of failing in career, the fear of death, sickness, accidents
v. Fear of being over weight
vi. Fear of being barren
vii. Fear of being abandon by a loved one etc

Keeping a focus could be difficult but not impossible. Come to think of it why should the fear of failure become a hindrance? The truth is failing at something does not make you a failure. All of history’s great achievers (men and women) failed at one point in life but they never gave up. You too should never give up.

Decisions they say determines destiny but some decisions are tough to make. Most woman avoid making such decisions, not because they do not know what to do or how to go about it, but are afraid they may fail. Interestingly, however it is the boldness to take such decisions avoided by others that distinguishes those who succeed. Great leaders may fail but rather than becoming frustrated, each failed attempt is considered an added experience. They are never afraid to get up and move on after every fall, you are never a failure until you fail to try again.

Having a determination to succeed is the first step to focusing on your purpose. This will keep your eyes centered on what only your spirit can perceive; even when those around you cannot see you become it. You also have to be diligent; you have to guard what you see jealously by doing as though there may never be another.

To maintain a focus on your purpose therefore, will require a:

i. Forgetting your past failures
ii. Determination to succeed
iii. Pursuit of excellence
iv. Diligence
v. The habit of committing everything to God in prayers

Woman what is your fear? What holds you back from becoming what God has created you to be? What are your limitations? You are above it all. Yes God has not given you the spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind. Just shift your focus and see yourself the way God sees you, the leader that you are.


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