HI ,ITS BEEN A WHILE . WELL I HAD BEEN VERY BUSY ,REMEMBER I TOLD U AM A JOURNALIST AND WITH A JOB LIKE THAT SOMETIMES YOU DON'T EVEN REMEMBER SOME THINGS. MEANING YOU KIND OF PRIORITIZE.
WELL I WOULD BE SHARING SOMETHING WITH YOU ABOUT LOVE. RECENTLY I OPEN MY HEART AGAIN TO GIVE A RELATIONSHIP A CHANCE. I AM SEEING THIS WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN . IYKE IS ,WELL I WONT SAY EVERY WOMANS DREAM COS WAT IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER MAY NOT BE FOR THE GOOSE. BUT TO ME HE IS WONDERFUL ,CARING AND LOVING.
RECENTLY HE STARTED CORRECTING ME ON JUST ABOUT A WHOLE LOT OF THINGS ,AND MY DEARS SUCH TIMES WERE TIMES FOR FIGHTS . FOR ME I FELT HE WAS BEEN TOO HARD ,WHILE HE THOUGHT I WAS NOT TEACHABLE.THIS MY DEAR WORRIED ME FOR A WHILE . AND I HAVE BEEN TALKING TO GOD ABOUT IT AND EXPRESSING FEAR THAT THIS COULD TEAR US APART.
HOWEVER I GOT AN ANSWER THAT IS A SOLUTION AND THAT I AM WORKING WITH AND WOULD WANT TO SHARE WITH YOU. FOR THE GUYS AROUND. WHEN YOU WANT TO CORRECT YOUR PARTNER ITS BEST TO USE THE SANDWICH METHOD . THIS METHOD INVOLVES COMPLIMENTS ,CORRECTION AND COMPLEMENTS. I BET YOU NO WOMAN WOULD FEEL HURT IF YOU DO THAT.
AND FOR YOU SISTERS OF MINE. IF YOU ARE CORRECTED PLEASE DON'T SEE IT AS A KIND OF PERSECUTION OR SOME SORT OF YOUR MAN TRYING TO LORD HIMSELF OVER YOU[THATS WHAT I WAS FEELING]IT TAKES ONLY A MAN WHO LOVES YOU TO CORRECT YOU.NO MATTER HOW IT HURTS ,IT MAY TAKE TIME TO GET USE TO BUT JUST SMILE AND SAY THANK YOU.
HOWEVER ONE SHOULD BE ABLE TO KNOW WHEN YOU HAVE A HITLER ...LOL AS A PARTNER AND FLEEE.AND LIKE MY SWEETHEART WOULD ALWAYS SAY WHEN HE CORRECTS ME ,I WOULD TELL YOU THAT CORRECTION IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD .IT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON ,WE ARE ALL STUDENTS FOR LIFE ,HENCE WE SHOULDN'T ALLOW PRIDE DEPRIVE US AN OPPORTUNITY TO BE A BETTER PERSON.
SO WHAT ARE THE LESSON,1]LEARN TO BE TEACHERABLE, MEN ,REMEMBER THE SANDWICH AND BE WILLING TO COMPROMISE ,NOT JUST IN A SPOUSAL RELATIONSHIP BUT IN ALL KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS. SHALLOM.
DEVOTIONAL PASSAGE;PSALM 103........BLESS GOD THIS WEEK AND YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED WHAT THE LORD WILL DO . EXPECTING FEEDBACKS
Sunday, 20 July 2008
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